tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3386504209260507818.post8983742320329161075..comments2023-04-05T21:05:01.698+05:30Comments on A Peep into my Pensieve...: In a Quandary...Ayyappanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03303674609374590723noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3386504209260507818.post-12533972374700021472008-11-02T16:53:00.000+05:302008-11-02T16:53:00.000+05:30bro here's what i have to say...after i read your ...bro here's what i have to say...<BR/>after i read your post i was about to write exactly what siku bhai said... but i'll tell you in detail...<BR/><BR/>obviously you feel sympathy towards her...<BR/>isf she knows that, she will never accept your help...<BR/><BR/>as sikander bhai said...<BR/>approach her and talk to her for a few days... when she grows affectionate towards you...<BR/><BR/>then you try to help...<BR/>first try to gather more info about her...<BR/>like her bday and all....<BR/>if it'ssomewhere close by<BR/><BR/>u can give it to her as gifts..<BR/>you wouldn't hurt her pride then..<BR/><BR/>after u hv known each other approach her like this....<BR/>"mei aapke bete jaisa hun na... app mujhe pyaar karte ho na...to mera ek kehna manoge..."<BR/><BR/>you know force her by words to accept it...<BR/>it always works...<BR/><BR/>just wanted to tell you in detail<BR/><BR/>hope it helps...Kunwar Krishna Khuranahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08687614421008788838noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3386504209260507818.post-6130878627909522702008-11-01T23:26:00.000+05:302008-11-01T23:26:00.000+05:30@SikanderMaybe that'd be the best approach. I was ...@Sikander<BR/>Maybe that'd be the best approach. I was thinking on some similar lines. She needs emotional support from a son.<BR/>You're right. :)Ayyappanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03303674609374590723noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3386504209260507818.post-7013734898881337172008-11-01T23:12:00.000+05:302008-11-01T23:12:00.000+05:30Try and talk to her for a few days before you actu...Try and talk to her for a few days before you actually offer the help. Make her comfortable, make her feel as if you belong to her.. a week would be enough... I guess.<BR/><BR/>Don't just 'act' a helper.. act a 'son'.Sikander Fayyaz Khanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11522542841667608246noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3386504209260507818.post-22753328588038236782008-10-31T14:40:00.000+05:302008-10-31T14:40:00.000+05:30@KetkiI am afraid of hurting the old lady's pride....@Ketki<BR/>I am afraid of hurting the old lady's pride. Or I am plain scared of approaching her. Maybe, her illustrious past is intimidating me... I dunno. But I guess you're right. :)Ayyappanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03303674609374590723noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3386504209260507818.post-20775843853833678332008-10-31T11:19:00.000+05:302008-10-31T11:19:00.000+05:30i m associated witha group called the banyan which...i m associated witha group called the banyan which helps such people<BR/>if there is anything i can do, i'll be happy to help.ketkihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07322260594992223852noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3386504209260507818.post-39161135425591200242008-10-31T11:14:00.000+05:302008-10-31T11:14:00.000+05:30about 2 years ago, i was faced witha similar situa...about 2 years ago, i was faced witha similar situation or as u say, I too was in a 'quandry'<BR/>(you may refer to my post- In the Vale of Tears) <BR/>however I went ahead and helped that lady, whatever little i could do.<BR/>she didnt survive for many days ...<BR/>may be it was her sorrow that killed her more than her bad health<BR/>even today i feel guilty that couldnt help her survive...<BR/>may be u too should go ahead and help in every possible way, to evite the guilt later...ketkihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07322260594992223852noreply@blogger.com